Remembering Jane: A Life of Inspiration Through RDA

It is with great sadness that we mark the passing of Jane O’Neill in October 2025. Jane, a beloved and tireless advocate for the Riding for the Disabled Association (RDA), devoted many decades to the organisation, inspiring everyone she met with her courage, determination, and infectious enthusiasm.

Jane’s journey with RDA began in the 1980s after a day out from the Spinal Injuries Unit sparked her interest in carriage driving. As a quadriplegic, she initially doubted it was possible, saying, “I can’t use my hands; how can I hold the reins?” But encouraged by someone who recognised her fighting spirit, Jane found a way to adapt her reins with a stitched loop and Velcro gloves, and relying on the power of her voice to communicate with her pony.

With the support of friends and her equestrian community, Jane acquired her first trap and a Dartmoor pony to “just groom.” Her first attempt at grooming ended with her falling from her wheelchair, but Jane refused to be defeated. Through persistence, trial, and error, she began driving the pony, taking lessons at Trefnant RDA in North Wales. Her bond with Donna, her driving pony and a true partner, became central to her story. Jane mastered not only the reins but also the subtle movements of her body to communicate with Donna, building a relationship based on trust, patience, and mutual respect.

Jane’s talent and dedication soon shone on the competitive stage. She excelled in Driving Trials Clubs and, in 1990, travelled to the Netherlands for her first international para carriage driving event, winning Great Britain’s first gold in the competition. She represented her country again in 1994 at Hartpury and took part in the RDA National Championships, as well as a special display of carriages through the ages for RDA’s 40th Anniversary Celebrations at Stow on the Wold.

Beyond competition, Jane’s legacy lived on through Red Rose Carriage Driving, the RDA Group she helped to establish and run. She often emphasised that the joy of RDA was not just for her, it was for everyone. Jane recognised the profound impact of community: volunteers and drivers, whether actively driving or supporting in other ways, all contributed to an environment that uplifted those facing challenging times. She knew that even small acts, like brushing a pony or making a cup of tea, could make a meaningful difference.

Jane’s story is a testament to the transformative power of RDA. For those who can drive, the experience of being on a carriage and enjoying the world from a new perspective is life-enhancing. For Jane, it was also about giving back, nurturing community, and celebrating the extraordinary potential of people and ponies alike.

As Red Rose Carriage Driving now closes its chapter, Jane’s legacy remains. She will be remembered not only for her remarkable achievements but for her generosity, courage, and the inspiration she offered to everyone involved in RDA. Her spirit lives on in the riders, volunteers, and communities she touched throughout her life.

“She was a real inspiration,” said one RDA member. “Her enthusiasm and determination will continue to inspire all of us.”